just tried basicswap and there was only 2 offers T_T
a particl -> xmr and a particl -> wow but not even xmr <-> wow trades which is sad Y_Y
didnt activate ltc/btc tho so maybe there would have been offers there but who knows
edit: as per the neroswap link below, there's indeed more offers if enabling ltc/btc which is good to know, ty on the links 
clicking on noirtrade.io and anonkyc.io does a "Problem loading page - Server not found" error thing
seems like cexswap might have some volume on the usdt pair, no volume on the other pairs, didnt know about altquick which seems ok volume all things considered, only paired with btc seems like but at least the xmr/btc pair doesnt lag on the price unlike nonlogs (which yea, seems like an exit at this point :/)
and so many "instant swap exchanges" nowadays but not a single one with wow... sad T_T
i havent checked the smirk wallet yet but sounds like more atomic swaps support should probably be the way to go at this point yea
thank you on the post and forum